Lovesail Dating & Sailing Safety Tips
Even the most sensible single sailors can sometimes lose their heads when it comes to matters of the heart! Here are some important safety tips to help you stay safe while meeting other sailing enthusiasts on Lovesail.
1. Protect Your Personal Information
Always keep your personal details private. Do not share your home address, email, social media, workplace, or mobile number until you’ve met someone in person and feel comfortable.
Be cautious if someone sends their contact details in the very first message — you can chat safely through Lovesail’s secure messaging system for as long as you like.
- Beware: The “my subscription is about to end” story is rarely true.
2. Trust Your Instincts
Everyone’s comfort levels are different. If you ever feel uneasy or uncomfortable when talking with another member, politely end the conversation and block them.
3. Let Someone Know
Before meeting anyone, always tell a friend or family member who you are meeting, where you are going, and what time you expect to return. That way, someone knows where you are if they need to check in.
4. Take a Mobile Phone
Always carry a fully charged mobile phone with you when meeting someone new.
5. Meet in Public Places
For first (and even second) dates, always meet somewhere public and busy such as cafés, pubs, museums, or galleries.
Avoid inviting someone you haven’t met to your home or offering accommodation, even if they’re travelling from abroad. A genuine person will have the means to arrange their own stay.
6. Arrange Your Own Transport and Accommodation
Always plan your own way to and from the meeting. If travelling abroad, book your own accommodation and keep enough funds for emergencies or a change of plan.
- A free night on a boat might sound tempting, but make sure you have a backup plan if things don’t go as expected.
7. Meeting for Sailing Trips
If you’re invited to go sailing, meet first on land for coffee — ideally several times. Take a friend or go with a group for your first trip.
If you’re a skipper, remember you have a duty of care to your guest or crew.
Ask to see photos of the boat and discuss expectations clearly:
- Who else will be on board?
- Is the trip romantic, social, or purely as crew?
- Who pays what?
Make sure both of you can afford your part and have a way home if plans change.
8. Be Clear About Expectations
Lovesail is a dating and social site. Not everyone is single — some members may be married or in complex arrangements. Find out their status early and be honest about yours. If your goals don’t align, it’s fine to move on politely.
9. Stay Safe When Socialising
- Keep your drink with you at all times.
- Don’t drink too much — alcohol and sailing don’t mix.
- Leave immediately if you feel uncomfortable — you owe no one an explanation.
10. Watch Out for Scammers
Scammers are rare on Lovesail (every profile is manually checked), but it’s still wise to stay alert.
- Be wary of people who share contact details too soon or ask for money.
- Never send money or share banking details.
- Ignore “I’m in trouble” or “I need travel funds” stories.
If you spot a suspicious profile, contact admin or use the Report button on the site. Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person.
11. Trust Your Gut
If something feels off — online or in person — it probably is.
- Declaring love too quickly
- Avoiding questions about themselves
- Asking too many personal questions
Talk to a trusted friend if you’re unsure. Sometimes a fresh perspective helps.
Stay Safe and Enjoy the Journey
Dating and sailing should be fun and exciting — just keep your safety as a priority. Use common sense, take your time, and enjoy meeting other sailing enthusiasts around the world through Lovesail.