CapnJ332

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Gender:
Man 
Age:
57
Location:
Alameda, California, United States
Here for:
Dating, Friendship, Crew 
About Me:

Recently separated, getting an amicable divorce (after 21 years). We just drifted apart, but remain friends. I wanted to sail the world (or at least some coastal stuff), she wants to sit safely at home playing with the grandkid. I’m a retired Fire Captain in my 50s, 6’0”, 205# (working on shaving that down, time to ditch the dad bod) blonde, blue. I’m in reasonable shape, though not the athlete I once was after blowing my back out twice on the job (structure fire in 2014, 600# stroke patient in 2016) and losing a kidney to cancer (from firefighting foam, now cancer free). I am an Atheist, trust science, am a left leaning moderate who doesn’t care for extremists on either side (read: MAGA, deeply religious people need not apply). Completely hetero but a staunch LGBT ally. Not in any hurry to date, just kind of seeing who’s out there, maybe pick up some crew, and if we click…?

Sailing Experience:

Over 35 years sailing. Learned on my dad’s Catalina 27 on Lake Tahoe in the early 90s, sailed dinghies (AMF Force V, etc.) for a few years, bought a Macgregor 25 (swing keel) trailer sailer that I got about 20 days a year on sailing Tahoe, Folsom Lake, and others for about 15 years. During the same time I was also sailing with my dad on his Catalina 30 in San Francisco Bay, as well as bareboat chartering (/skippering) a Hunter 41 DS for a weekend trip to Catalina Island. After retiring from the fire service (last 10 years as a Captain, I also spent 10 years on the water rescue team) I got my USCG Captain’s license (OUPV / “6 pack”) with towing endorsement and have been doing sailing charters in San Francisco Bay aboard my Pearson 33-2, with 100 charters under my belt (and about a half dozen or so rescues of kite boarders). I have also helped to deliver a Catalina 30 from Long Beach (LA area) to SF (400 nm) and a 65’ power yacht from SF to Oak Harbor, WA (near Seattle).

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